My Issues with my wordpress site

issue one: checkout page says Sorry, online ordering is unavailable to this destination and/or weight. Please double check your destination details. Until you enter a location and calculate shipping issue 2: This is also on the checkout page after you enter a location: Please enter your contact details: */?> Fields marked with an asterisk must be filled in. I would like to remove the */?> The above issues only take place when not using the default wp-e-commrece theme. I must use the theme it is using because I have had work done to format it and round its images. issue 3: Also on the checkout page: Please choose a country below to calculate your shipping costs I would like to change to: Please choose a country, state, and zip code below to calculate your shipping costs. issue 4: add this: to the checkout page just under total price in the center issue 5: I have been told that the shipping column will only display rates per product when using internal shipping. We use an API to UPS to calculate the shipping. If it is true that this will not display per item rates for UPS I would like to remove the shipping column from cart so there would only be product, quantity, price, and remove. issue 6: I want to run the new theme I have installed "win7". I need it to function and look the same as it does now. Click the start button on the site and see the pages, shutdown, change backround, etc. Also the footer should be clean like the current theme, no pages or cats. All products should look the same rounded images etc. No pages should have comments, or a mention of a poster or date. The new theme should display correctly. I also want the start button to be changed from a pencil to the windows 7 style button (I can provide a sample). issue 7: I have created a contact form in contact form 7 that I want to use as a widget on all pages (top right of every page not the sidebar). When I add it its way to wide (off the page). Also I think it will not send. I use the smtp plugin and the test message goes out fine in there. issue 8: secure client access page should open in a new page, not the same window.