Submit form using one button, one to emailmeform using html script and another to my internal database

Im sorry for my bad english. Im begineer with PHP and all coding method. I've been searching this for a days and still cannot find what I need lack to my understanding especially with php, java or ajax. I have an emailmeform form and I have my own form on 1 php file which I want when client submit the send button, it will save the data entered previously by client to my internal database and send it to emailmeform in the same time but I cannot make this happen. The solution I think will work is maybe ajax or javascript, but since lack of my knowledge with those codes I cannot solve this issue by my self. Here's my code (all in 1 php script page): <?php session_start(); include "connection/[login to view URL]"; $sql = mysql_query("SELECT * from tb_config"); $config = mysql_fetch_array($sql); if (isset($_POST['send'])) { $username = $_POST['element_1']; $password = $_POST['element_2']; $referral = $_POST['referral']; $a = mysql_num_rows(mysql_query("SELECT * from tb_member where username='$username'")); if (empty($username) || empty($password)) { echo "<script> alert('Please fill all the required form!!'); </script>"; } else if (strlen($_POST['element_2']) < 6) { echo "<script> alert('Password at least 6 digit!!!'); </script>"; } else { $save = mysql_query("insert into tb_member(username,password) values ('$username','$password')"); exit; } } ?> <!-- this is emailmeform scipt --> <form id="emf-form" target="_parent" class="leftLabel" enctype="multipart/form-data" method="post" action="[login to view URL]"> <div id="emf-form-description"><h2>Form Register</h2></div> </div> <ul> <li id="emf-li-0" class="emf-li-field emf-field-text data_container "> <label class="emf-label-desc" for="element_0">Your Name</label> <div class="emf-div-field"><input id="element_0" name="element_0" value="" size="30" type="text" class="validate[optional]"/><div class="emf-div-instruction">Please fill your name</div></div> <div class="emf-clear"></div> </li><li id="emf-li-1" class="emf-li-field emf-field-text data_container "> <label class="emf-label-desc" for="element_1">Username <span>*</span></label> <div class="emf-div-field"><input id="username" name="element_1" value="<?php if (isset($_POST['element_1'])) { echo $_POST['element_1']; } ?>" size="30" type="text" class="validate[required,length[6,15]]"/><div class="emf-div-instruction">At least 6 characters</div></div> <div class="emf-clear"></div> </li><li id="emf-li-2" class="emf-li-field emf-field-text data_container "> <label class="emf-label-desc" for="element_2">Password <span>*</span></label> <div class="emf-div-field"><input id="element_2" name="element_2" value="" size="30" type="text" emf_mask_input="true" class="validate[required,length[6,]]"/><div class="emf-div-instruction">At least 6 characters</div></div> <li id="emf-li-post-button" class="middle"> <input value="Send" type="submit" name="send" onmouseover="return true;"/> </li> </ul> <input name="element_counts" value="14" type="hidden" /> <input name="embed" value="forms" type="hidden" /> </form>